| No. | Item | Definition |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | accommodating | willing to fit others’ needs |
| 2. | affable | pleasantly easy to talk to |
| 3. | agreeable | pleasant and willing |
| 4. | amenable | open to suggestion |
| 5. | amiable | friendly and pleasant |
| 6. | amiably disposed | inclined to be friendly |
| 7. | approachable | easy to talk to |
| 8. | attentive | carefully considerate of others |
| 9. | benevolent | kind and well-meaning |
| 10. | benign | gentle and harmless |
| 11. | bred | having good upbringing and manners |
| 12. | chivalrous | courteous in a traditional way |
| 13. | civil | respectful and well-mannered |
| 14. | companionable | pleasant to be with |
| 15. | congenial | pleasant and friendly |
| 16. | considerate | thoughtful of others’ feelings |
| 17. | cooperative | willing to work pleasantly |
| 18. | cordial | warm and polite |
| 19. | courtly | very polite and elegant |
| 20. | debonair | confident, charming, and polite |
| 21. | decent | respectable and polite |
| 22. | decorous | properly polite and restrained |
| 23. | deferential | showing respectful submission |
| 24. | diplomatic | skillfully polite and sensitive |
| 25. | discreet | careful and tactful |
| 26. | easygoing | relaxed and pleasant |
| 27. | engaging | pleasantly interesting and friendly |
| 28. | fair-spoken | speaking politely and kindly |
| 29. | finished | highly polished in manners |
| 30. | forbearing | patient and tolerant |
| 31. | forgiving | willing to excuse faults |
| 32. | formal | polite in a reserved way |
| 33. | friendly | kind and pleasant toward others |
| 34. | gallant | bravely and politely attentive |
| 35. | genial | friendly and cheerful |
| 36. | genteel | polite and refined |
| 37. | gentle | kind and mild in manner |
| 38. | gentlemanly | polite in a traditional way |
| 39. | good-mannered | having polite behavior |
| 40. | graceful | pleasantly smooth and polite |
| 41. | gracious | pleasantly kind and polite |
| 42. | heedful | carefully attentive |
| 43. | helpful | ready to assist others |
| 44. | honorable | showing integrity and respect |
| 45. | hospitable | warmly welcoming to guests |
| 46. | humane | kind and compassionate |
| 47. | humble | not proud or arrogant |
| 48. | ingratiating | pleasantly eager to please |
| 49. | inoffending | causing no offense |
| 50. | inoffensive | not likely to offend |
| 51. | inofficious | not pushy or intrusive |
| 52. | kind | showing care and goodwill |
| 53. | kindly | kind and gentle in manner |
| 54. | ladylike | polite and refined |
| 55. | lovely | pleasantly kind and polite |
| 56. | mannerly | having polite manners |
| 57. | measured | calm and controlled |
| 58. | mild | gentle and not harsh |
| 59. | mindful | carefully considerate |
| 60. | modest | not boastful or rude |
| 61. | neighborlike | friendly and considerate |
| 62. | neighborly | friendly and helpful |
| 63. | nice | pleasant and polite |
| 64. | nonabrasive | not harsh or irritating |
| 65. | obliging | eager to help politely |
| 66. | open | friendly and receptive |
| 67. | patient | calm and tolerant with others |
| 68. | personable | pleasant in appearance and manner |
| 69. | pleasant | agreeable and polite |
| 70. | poised | graceful and self-controlled |
| 71. | polished | smooth and refined in manner |
| 72. | polite | showing good manners |
| 73. | proper | socially correct and polite |
| 74. | punctilious | careful about proper behavior |
| 75. | refined | elegant and well-mannered |
| 76. | regardful | showing consideration and respect |
| 77. | respectful | showing regard for others |
| 78. | respecting | showing respect |
| 79. | responsive | reacting helpfully and politely |
| 80. | restrained | controlled and polite |
| 81. | reverent | deeply respectful |
| 82. | self-effacing | modest and unshowy |
| 83. | sociable | friendly and comfortable socially |
| 84. | socially graceful | smooth and polite socially |
| 85. | soft-spoken | speaking gently and politely |
| 86. | solicitous | showing caring attention |
| 87. | suave | smoothly polite and confident |
| 88. | tactful | careful not to offend |
| 89. | thoughtful | showing careful consideration |
| 90. | tolerant | accepting and patient |
| 91. | unassuming | modest and not arrogant |
| 92. | understanding | sympathetic and considerate |
| 93. | urbane | polished and courteous |
| 94. | welcoming | making others feel accepted |
| 95. | well-behaved | behaving properly and politely |
| 96. | well-bred | having refined manners |
| 97. | well-disposed | friendly and favorable |
| 98. | well-mannered | having good social manners |
| 99. | well-spoken | speaking politely and clearly |
| 100. | winning | attractively pleasant |