| No. | Item | Definition |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | accommodating | willing to fit others’ needs |
| 2. | adaptable | able to adjust well |
| 3. | adroit | skillful and clever |
| 4. | affable | friendly and easy to talk to |
| 5. | agreeable | pleasant and willing |
| 6. | amiable | pleasant and friendly |
| 7. | appropriate | suitable for the situation |
| 8. | artful | clever in handling situations |
| 9. | attentive | paying close attention |
| 10. | balanced | fair and well considered |
| 11. | benign | gentle and harmless |
| 12. | careful | acting with caution and thought |
| 13. | carefully worded | phrased to avoid offense |
| 14. | charitable | lenient and kind in judgment |
| 15. | circumspect | wary and careful in speech |
| 16. | civil | polite and respectful |
| 17. | composed | calm and self-controlled |
| 18. | considerate | showing thought for others’ feelings |
| 19. | cool-headed | calm under pressure |
| 20. | cordial | warm and polite |
| 21. | courteous | polite and respectful in manner |
| 22. | decent | morally respectable and polite |
| 23. | deferential | showing respectful regard |
| 24. | delicate | handled with gentle care |
| 25. | diplomatic | careful not to offend others |
| 26. | diplomatlike | like a skilled diplomat |
| 27. | discerning | showing good judgment |
| 28. | discreet | careful and prudent in speech |
| 29. | empathetic | able to understand feelings |
| 30. | evenhanded | fair and impartial in approach |
| 31. | fair-minded | willing to judge fairly |
| 32. | forbearing | patient and self-controlled |
| 33. | forgiving | ready to pardon faults |
| 34. | genial | friendly and cheerful |
| 35. | gentle | mild and kind in manner |
| 36. | good with people | skilled in dealing kindly |
| 37. | graceful | smooth and pleasing in manner |
| 38. | gracious | pleasantly kind and courteous |
| 39. | guarded | careful and cautious in expression |
| 40. | helpful | useful and considerate |
| 41. | humane | kind and considerate |
| 42. | humble | modest and respectful |
| 43. | inoffensive | not likely to offend |
| 44. | interpersonally skilled | good with people |
| 45. | judicious | showing good judgment and care |
| 46. | kind | showing care and goodwill |
| 47. | kindly | kind and gentle |
| 48. | lenient | not harsh or severe |
| 49. | level-headed | calm and sensible |
| 50. | low-key | calm and understated |
| 51. | mature | showing adult good judgment |
| 52. | measured | controlled and carefully judged |
| 53. | mild | gentle and not harsh |
| 54. | mindful | aware and considerate of others |
| 55. | moderate | not extreme or harsh |
| 56. | modest | not boastful or showy |
| 57. | neighborly | friendly and considerate |
| 58. | nice | pleasant and kind |
| 59. | nonconfrontational | avoiding direct conflict |
| 60. | nuanced | showing subtle distinctions |
| 61. | obliging | helpful and eager to please |
| 62. | perceptive | quick to notice feelings |
| 63. | pleasant | agreeable and polite |
| 64. | poised | graceful and self-controlled |
| 65. | polished | refined and socially skilled |
| 66. | polite | showing respectful good manners |
| 67. | politic | wise in practical dealings |
| 68. | proper | socially correct and fitting |
| 69. | prudent | careful and wise in action |
| 70. | qualified | limited or softened carefully |
| 71. | reasonable | sensible and fair |
| 72. | reassuring | making others feel calmer |
| 73. | refined | elegant and well mannered |
| 74. | respectful | showing regard for others |
| 75. | responsive | reacting appropriately to others |
| 76. | restrained | controlled and not excessive |
| 77. | sensible | practical and well judged |
| 78. | sensitive | aware of others’ feelings |
| 79. | smooth | socially polished and easy |
| 80. | socially aware | sensitive to social dynamics |
| 81. | socially skilled | good at handling people |
| 82. | soft-spoken | speaking gently and quietly |
| 83. | soothing | calming and gentle |
| 84. | suave | smoothly polite and confident |
| 85. | sympathetic | showing understanding and care |
| 86. | temperate | moderate and self-controlled |
| 87. | tender | gentle and caring |
| 88. | thoughtful | mindful and kind in approach |
| 89. | unassuming | modest and not showy |
| 90. | understanding | showing empathy and patience |
| 91. | understated | expressed in a restrained way |
| 92. | unflappable | not easily upset |
| 93. | urbane | polished and courteous |
| 94. | warm | kind and friendly |
| 95. | well judged | carefully considered and sensible |
| 96. | well phrased | worded carefully and effectively |
| 97. | well put | expressed clearly and suitably |
| 98. | well-mannered | having polite behavior |
| 99. | wise | showing good sense and judgment |
| 100. | worldly-wise | experienced and socially shrewd |
