| No. | Item | Definition |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | abrasive | harsh and unpleasant |
| 2. | aggressive | ready to attack or argue |
| 3. | aloof | cool and detached |
| 4. | argumentative | often starting arguments |
| 5. | arrogant | acting superior to others |
| 6. | attention-seeking | always wanting the spotlight |
| 7. | backbiting | speaking badly behind backs |
| 8. | betraying | breaking trust or loyalty |
| 9. | bitter | angry and hard to please |
| 10. | boastful | talking proudly about oneself |
| 11. | bossy | always telling others what to do |
| 12. | callous | emotionally insensitive and cold |
| 13. | clingy | overly dependent and demanding |
| 14. | cold-hearted | lacking warmth or compassion |
| 15. | combative | eager to fight verbally |
| 16. | condescending | talking down to others |
| 17. | controlling | trying to dominate others |
| 18. | critical | often finding fault |
| 19. | cruel | deliberately causing emotional pain |
| 20. | cynical | distrustful of others’ motives |
| 21. | deceitful | given to lying or trickery |
| 22. | deceptive | misleading or false |
| 23. | demanding | expecting too much from others |
| 24. | dishonest | not truthful or sincere |
| 25. | disloyal | not faithful to a friend |
| 26. | distant | emotionally or socially removed |
| 27. | domineering | overly controlling and forceful |
| 28. | draining | emotionally exhausting to be around |
| 29. | egotistical | overly full of self-importance |
| 30. | erratic | unpredictable in behavior |
| 31. | exploitative | taking unfair advantage |
| 32. | fair-weather | supportive only when convenient |
| 33. | fake | not genuinely caring |
| 34. | fickle | often changing loyalty or interest |
| 35. | flaky | often failing to follow through |
| 36. | freeloader | takes without contributing |
| 37. | gossipy | likes spreading personal talk |
| 38. | greedy | wanting more than needed |
| 39. | grudge-holding | not letting old hurts go |
| 40. | grumpy | bad-tempered and unfriendly |
| 41. | harsh | severe and hurtful |
| 42. | heartless | showing no sympathy |
| 43. | high-maintenance | needing constant effort and attention |
| 44. | hostile | openly unfriendly or aggressive |
| 45. | immature | not acting like an adult |
| 46. | inconsiderate | not mindful of others |
| 47. | insensitive | not considerate of feelings |
| 48. | intrusive | invading personal boundaries |
| 49. | invalidating | rejecting someone’s feelings |
| 50. | irresponsible | not dependable or careful |
| 51. | irritable | easily annoyed or angered |
| 52. | jealous | resentful of others’ success |
| 53. | judgmental | quick to criticize others |
| 54. | malicious | intending harm or trouble |
| 55. | manipulative | controls others for advantage |
| 56. | mean | unkind and hurtful |
| 57. | meddlesome | interfering in others’ affairs |
| 58. | mooch | habitually takes from others |
| 59. | moody | often changing in temper |
| 60. | nasty | unpleasant and hurtful |
| 61. | needy | constantly seeking attention |
| 62. | neglectful | failing to give needed care |
| 63. | nosy | too curious about private matters |
| 64. | obnoxious | extremely unpleasant or rude |
| 65. | opportunistic | using situations for advantage |
| 66. | overbearing | too forceful and controlling |
| 67. | parasitic | taking without giving back |
| 68. | petty | mean over small matters |
| 69. | phony | fake and insincere |
| 70. | possessive | overly controlling of a friend |
| 71. | pushy | aggressively insistent |
| 72. | reckless | careless about consequences |
| 73. | resentful | holding bitterness or anger |
| 74. | rude | impolite and disrespectful |
| 75. | sarcastic | using cutting, mocking remarks |
| 76. | secretive | hiding things unnecessarily |
| 77. | selfish | puts own needs first |
| 78. | shady | seeming dishonest or suspicious |
| 79. | sneaky | acting in a secretive way |
| 80. | snide | mocking in a sly way |
| 81. | spiteful | wanting to hurt someone |
| 82. | standoffish | unfriendly and reserved |
| 83. | tactless | speaking without sensitivity |
| 84. | temperamental | easily upset or irritable |
| 85. | thoughtless | careless about others’ feelings |
| 86. | toxic | harmful and emotionally damaging |
| 87. | treacherous | likely to betray trust |
| 88. | two-faced | acts differently behind your back |
| 89. | unavailable | not emotionally present |
| 90. | uncaring | not showing concern |
| 91. | underhanded | dishonest in a secret way |
| 92. | unforgiving | not willing to pardon |
| 93. | unreliable | cannot be counted on |
| 94. | unsupportive | not encouraging or helpful |
| 95. | untrustworthy | cannot be relied on |
| 96. | user | person who uses others |
| 97. | venomous | full of malice or spite |
| 98. | vindictive | seeking revenge or payback |
| 99. | volatile | likely to change explosively |
| 100. | whiny | complaining in an annoying way |