| No. | Item | Definition |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | accommodating | willing to fit others’ needs |
| 2. | affable | easy to talk to |
| 3. | agreeable | pleasantly willing and polite |
| 4. | amiable | pleasant and friendly |
| 5. | approachable | easy to speak to |
| 6. | attentive | carefully considerate of others |
| 7. | balanced | calm and fair in judgment |
| 8. | benevolent | kind and well-meaning |
| 9. | benign | gentle and kindly |
| 10. | chivalrous | courteous and gallant |
| 11. | civil | behaving in a polite way |
| 12. | compliant | ready to agree or obey |
| 13. | considerate | thoughtful of others’ feelings |
| 14. | cooperative | willing to work pleasantly |
| 15. | cordial | warm and politely friendly |
| 16. | correct | conforming to polite standards |
| 17. | courteous | marked by respectful good manners |
| 18. | courtly | very formal and polite |
| 19. | cultured | showing refined good manners |
| 20. | decent | socially acceptable and respectful |
| 21. | decorous | properly dignified and polite |
| 22. | deferential | showing respectful submission |
| 23. | diplomatic | skillfully avoiding offense |
| 24. | discreet | careful and tactful |
| 25. | dutiful | respectfully obedient |
| 26. | easygoing | relaxed and tolerant |
| 27. | elegant | tasteful and refined |
| 28. | fair-minded | judging others impartially |
| 29. | forbearing | patient and tolerant |
| 30. | forgiving | ready to pardon others |
| 31. | formal | following polite social conventions |
| 32. | friendly | kind and pleasant toward others |
| 33. | genteel | polite in an old-fashioned way |
| 34. | gentle | kind and mild in manner |
| 35. | gentlemanlike | behaving with courtesy and honor |
| 36. | gentlemanly | courteous and honorable |
| 37. | good-humored | cheerful and easygoing |
| 38. | good-mannered | having polite behavior |
| 39. | graceful | showing ease and courtesy |
| 40. | gracious | pleasantly kind and courteous |
| 41. | helpful | ready to assist others |
| 42. | hospitable | friendly to guests and visitors |
| 43. | humble | modest and not arrogant |
| 44. | inoffending | not giving offense |
| 45. | inoffensive | unlikely to cause offense |
| 46. | judicious | showing wise tact and care |
| 47. | just | acting with fairness and respect |
| 48. | kind | showing care and goodwill |
| 49. | kindly | gentle and considerate |
| 50. | ladylike | polite and refined in manner |
| 51. | lenient | not harsh or strict |
| 52. | mannerly | having polite manners |
| 53. | measured | careful and controlled in tone |
| 54. | meek | quietly gentle and submissive |
| 55. | mild | gentle and not harsh |
| 56. | mindful | aware and considerate |
| 57. | modest | not boastful or pushy |
| 58. | neighborly | friendly and considerate |
| 59. | nice | pleasant and polite |
| 60. | nonconfrontational | avoiding direct conflict |
| 61. | obedient | willing to comply respectfully |
| 62. | obliging | eager to help politely |
| 63. | patient | able to wait calmly |
| 64. | pleasant | giving a polite agreeable impression |
| 65. | poised | graceful and self-controlled |
| 66. | polished | refined and socially smooth |
| 67. | polite | showing good manners and respect |
| 68. | proper | socially correct and polite |
| 69. | prudent | showing careful good judgment |
| 70. | punctilious | careful about proper behavior |
| 71. | reasonable | fair and sensible |
| 72. | refined | elegant and polite in behavior |
| 73. | respect-minded | guided by respect for others |
| 74. | respectable | worthy of social respect |
| 75. | respectful | showing consideration and esteem |
| 76. | responsive | reacting helpfully and promptly |
| 77. | restrained | controlled and not rude |
| 78. | reverent | deeply respectful |
| 79. | self-restrained | able to control impulses |
| 80. | sensitive | aware of others’ feelings |
| 81. | sociable | friendly and willing to talk |
| 82. | soft-spoken | speaking gently and politely |
| 83. | solicitous | showing caring attention |
| 84. | sophisticated | socially experienced and refined |
| 85. | suave | smoothly polite and confident |
| 86. | sympathetic | showing understanding and concern |
| 87. | tactful | careful not to offend |
| 88. | temperate | moderate and self-restrained |
| 89. | tenderhearted | easily moved to kindness |
| 90. | thoughtful | attentive to others’ needs |
| 91. | tolerant | accepting of differences |
| 92. | unassuming | modest and not pretentious |
| 93. | understanding | showing patience and empathy |
| 94. | urbane | suave and courteous |
| 95. | warm | showing kindly friendliness |
| 96. | warmhearted | full of kindness and sympathy |
| 97. | welcoming | making others feel accepted |
| 98. | well-bred | having good upbringing and manners |
| 99. | well-mannered | having good social manners |
| 100. | well-spoken | speaking correctly and politely |