| No. | Item | Definition |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | Anyone would be upset. | A validating empathy statement. |
| 2. | Anyone would feel shaken. | A validating empathy statement. |
| 3. | Anyone would struggle with that. | A validating empathy statement. |
| 4. | I can hear how much this hurts. | Recognizes pain in their words. |
| 5. | I can imagine that’s upsetting. | Shows empathetic understanding. |
| 6. | I can only imagine. | Shows humble empathy. |
| 7. | I can see this is affecting you. | Recognizes impact. |
| 8. | I can see why this is upsetting. | Validates their distress. |
| 9. | I can see why you’re tired. | Acknowledges exhaustion. |
| 10. | I can see you’re struggling. | Recognizes visible struggle. |
| 11. | I can tell this has been hard. | Recognizes ongoing hardship. |
| 12. | I can tell this is exhausting. | Recognizes depletion. |
| 13. | I can tell this matters deeply. | Recognizes personal significance. |
| 14. | I can tell this really hurts. | Recognizes pain. |
| 15. | I can tell you’re hurting. | Recognizes pain. |
| 16. | I can understand that. | Shows understanding. |
| 17. | I feel for you. | Expresses sympathy. |
| 18. | I hate that this is happening. | Shows shared distress. |
| 19. | I hate that you’re in pain. | Shows caring distress. |
| 20. | I hear you. | Shows attentive understanding. |
| 21. | I know this feels unfair. | Validates sense of injustice. |
| 22. | I know this has taken a toll. | Recognizes impact over time. |
| 23. | I know this is a lot to hold. | Acknowledges emotional load. |
| 24. | I know this is deeply upsetting. | Recognizes intense distress. |
| 25. | I know this is weighing heavily. | Recognizes emotional burden. |
| 26. | I know this isn’t fair. | Acknowledges injustice. |
| 27. | I know you’re trying. | Affirms effort. |
| 28. | I see how much this hurts. | Recognizes visible pain. |
| 29. | I understand how you feel. | Shows emotional understanding. |
| 30. | I wish I could make it easier. | Expresses caring helplessness. |
| 31. | I wish I could take this away. | Expresses caring helplessness. |
| 32. | I wish things were different. | Expresses regret and care. |
| 33. | I’m here for you. | Offers support and presence. |
| 34. | I’m listening. | Invites them to share. |
| 35. | I’m really sorry. | Expresses sincere sympathy. |
| 36. | I’m sorry life feels so heavy. | Shows compassion for burden. |
| 37. | I’m sorry things are so hard. | Expresses sympathy for hardship. |
| 38. | I’m sorry this happened. | Expresses regret and care. |
| 39. | I’m sorry this is so painful. | Shows compassion for pain. |
| 40. | I’m sorry this keeps happening. | Shows sympathy for repeated hardship. |
| 41. | I’m sorry you’re carrying this. | Shows compassion for burden. |
| 42. | I’m sorry you’re facing this. | Expresses sympathy and concern. |
| 43. | I’m sorry you’re feeling alone. | Shows compassion for isolation. |
| 44. | I’m sorry you’re feeling so low. | Shows compassion for sadness. |
| 45. | I’m sorry you’re hurting. | Shows compassion for their pain. |
| 46. | I’m sorry you’re stuck in this. | Shows sympathy for feeling trapped. |
| 47. | I’m with you. | Signals solidarity and support. |
| 48. | It’s okay to feel this way. | Normalizes their emotions. |
| 49. | My heart goes out to you. | Expresses deep sympathy. |
| 50. | No one should face this alone. | Affirms need for support. |
| 51. | No wonder you feel that way. | Strongly validates their reaction. |
| 52. | That makes sense. | Validates their perspective. |
| 53. | That must be frustrating. | Acknowledges frustration. |
| 54. | That must be heartbreaking. | Acknowledges deep emotional pain. |
| 55. | That must be really difficult. | Recognizes the challenge involved. |
| 56. | That must be so disappointing. | Acknowledges disappointment. |
| 57. | That must be so hard to bear. | Acknowledges heavy suffering. |
| 58. | That must be so stressful. | Acknowledges stress. |
| 59. | That must feel awful. | Acknowledges emotional suffering. |
| 60. | That must feel lonely. | Acknowledges isolation. |
| 61. | That must feel so heavy. | Recognizes emotional burden. |
| 62. | That must feel unbearable. | Acknowledges extreme pain. |
| 63. | That really stinks. | Casual sympathy. |
| 64. | That sounds deeply unfair. | Acknowledges injustice. |
| 65. | That sounds draining. | Acknowledges depletion. |
| 66. | That sounds heartbreaking. | Recognizes deep sadness. |
| 67. | That sounds incredibly tough. | Acknowledges severe difficulty. |
| 68. | That sounds like such a loss. | Acknowledges grief or loss. |
| 69. | That sounds painful. | Acknowledges emotional hurt. |
| 70. | That sounds really hard. | Acknowledges difficulty and pain. |
| 71. | That sounds really isolating. | Acknowledges isolation. |
| 72. | That sounds so frustrating. | Acknowledges frustration. |
| 73. | That sounds so hard. | Acknowledges difficulty. |
| 74. | That sounds upsetting. | Acknowledges distress. |
| 75. | That would be hard for anyone. | Normalizes their struggle. |
| 76. | That would upset anyone. | Normalizes their reaction. |
| 77. | That would wear anyone down. | Normalizes exhaustion. |
| 78. | This must be a lot. | Acknowledges emotional burden. |
| 79. | This sounds deeply painful. | Acknowledges intense hurt. |
| 80. | This sounds incredibly painful. | Acknowledges intense suffering. |
| 81. | This sounds overwhelming. | Recognizes emotional overload. |
| 82. | This sounds really lonely. | Acknowledges loneliness. |
| 83. | This sounds really painful. | Acknowledges pain. |
| 84. | This sounds so discouraging. | Acknowledges discouragement. |
| 85. | This would shake anyone. | Normalizes strong reaction. |
| 86. | You are allowed to feel this. | Gives emotional permission. |
| 87. | You are doing your best. | Affirms their effort. |
| 88. | You are not alone. | Offers reassurance and companionship. |
| 89. | You deserve compassion. | Affirms need for care. |
| 90. | You deserve kindness right now. | Affirms need for care. |
| 91. | You deserve support. | Affirms worthiness of help. |
| 92. | You didn’t ask for this. | Acknowledges unfairness. |
| 93. | You don’t deserve this. | Affirms unfairness of their pain. |
| 94. | You don’t have to be okay. | Removes pressure to cope. |
| 95. | You have been through a lot. | Recognizes accumulated hardship. |
| 96. | You have every right to be hurt. | Validates hurt feelings. |
| 97. | You matter to me. | Affirms their importance. |
| 98. | You must be exhausted. | Recognizes emotional or physical strain. |
| 99. | You seem really overwhelmed. | Recognizes emotional overload. |
| 100. | You shouldn’t have to face this. | Acknowledges unfair burden. |

